As moms, we naturally wear many hats; cook, chauffeur, home organizer, timekeeper, peacekeeper, counsellor, motivator… and the list goes on.
Recently, when my eldest turned 10, I decided to put on a new hat: tutor. I was confident I had the knowledge to help her with her school subjects. What I didn’t realize was that knowledge alone doesn’t equal aptitude.
As the days went by, my patience grew thinner, my voice grew louder, and irritation quickly turned into frustration. To my great shame, I became a monster mom. There were moments when it felt like all nine fruit of the Spirit had completely abandoned me. Not one fruit left in me.
Revision time every night became stressful for both my daughter and me. I realized it had become a trigger for me.
Something had to change. We couldn’t go on like this.
So, I apologized to her and promised to be a calmer tutor. The look on her face told me she wasn’t convinced.
That night, I prayed, specifically for just three fruit of the Spirit: self-control, patience, and kindness. I was desperate enough to cling to just these three.
And at the start of every session, I prayed for just these three fruit of the Spirit. The days that followed were better than I could have imagined. Our revision sessions became calmer, lighter, even enjoyable. We shared many peaceful and meaningful moments as she prepared for her exams.
We are not perfect moms. There are moments when we’re triggered, when we react impulsively, emotionally, even angrily. But often, the very things that trigger us are the things God is inviting us to surrender to Him.
So, here’s my challenge to fellow moms: don’t run from your triggers. Face them. Bring them honestly before God. Name them. Surrender them. Ask Him for the fruit you lack in that moment.
As Scripture reminds us:
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” Galatians 5:22–23
When we lay our triggers at His feet, He doesn’t shame us. He transforms us. And in the very areas where we feel weakest, His grace shows up strongest – because His strength is made perfect in our weakness.
But He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.” 2 Corinthians 12:9
The more I ponder John 1:14, the more I am left in awe. Words begin to fail me at what God has done for humankind.
The Word became flesh and dwelt among us.
Why would a God who existed before beginning began, who created time and eternity, the cosmos and galaxies, choose to clothe Himself in human flesh and live among us?
The mystery is almost unbearable in its beauty. The infinite stepping into the finite. The Creator entering creation. Not from a distance, but close enough to be seen, touched, known.
The word dwelt in the original Greek is σκηνόω (skēnoō). It literally means to pitch a tent, to tabernacle, to take up residence. This is not the language of a passing visit. It is the language of presence.
He entered our dust and our days, our meals and conversations, our friendships and fatigue.
A God who makes His home among us, inviting us through Christ into communion with Him.
This is the greatest event in history. The moment when eternity stepped into time. When God did not merely speak to humanity, but came to dwell with us.
And this is why every human heart should take heed. Every ear should lean in and listen.
For this is not simply a story of the past, but a declaration of what God has done, for us. A God who draws near. A God who enters our world so we might draw into Him, our source of true life.
The Word became flesh. And nothing has been the same since.
December 2024, a curiosity began to stir in me. I wondered what a year of yes might look like. A year of saying yes to God, to whatever He placed before me, both within church ministry and beyond its walls.
So, that was how I stepped into 2025. With curiosity more than certainty. I was eager to see what I would learn about God.
Needless to say, it became a very full year. A year of showing up. Of diving deeper into community life. Of saying yes when it would have been easier, and more comfortable, to say no.
Now, as I look back on 2025, here’s what I learned. I’ve learned that every yes led me to people, meeting new people and connecting deeper with others. And each connection, enriched my journey of faith.
Through these people, I was encouraged. Inspired. Spurred on to go deeper with God and to love His people.
Was I surprised by what I learned? Yes. Should I have been surprised? Not really.
Here’s why.
God is interested in people. He has always been interested in people. From the very beginning, Scripture reveals a God who walks with humanity, speaks with them, and dwells among them. “It is not good for man to be alone,” God said (Genesis 2:18), not because Adam lacked productivity, but because he lacked relationship.
God Himself exists in community. The Trinity – God the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, living in perfect communion with one another. Relationship is not something God created for us; it is something that already exists within Him. And He invites us into the community of the Trinity, to partake in the joy and love of His fellowship.
So, it should not surprise me that a year of saying yes to God would draw me deeper into relationships. That growth would happen not in isolation, but in community.
From Genesis to the Gospels, Scripture tells the same story: a God who walks with His people, dwells among them, and invites them into life together. A God who calls, gathers, sends and also meets us again through one another.
Jesus did not minister alone. He called disciples to walk with Him. He ate with people, touched the outcast, met people in homes. And when the early church was formed, “they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship” Acts 2:42). Faith, from the beginning, was meant to be lived together.
Perhaps the greatest lesson of my yes year was this: when we say yes to God, we are often saying yes to people. And as we grow deeper in our relationship with God, we find ourselves loving people more deeply.
Serving in the Sunday School ministry for over a year now has been one of the most unexpected blessings in my life. While the children are learning about God, I’ve realized—I’m learning just as much from them.
We had a class full of 7–8 year old boys and girls including a handful of highly energetic ones. So, you can imagine, it’s been quite a roller coaster ride, swinging between well-executed lesson plans and beautifully chaotic moments.
But through it all, I’m deeply grateful for the amazing team of teachers and helpers in our class. We’ve had each other’s backs every step of the way and I wouldn’t trade this journey for anything.
What amazes me even more is the number of teachers who have served faithfully for years, still showing up with the same love, passion, and joy week after week. Their quiet faithfulness inspires me and reminds me that this ministry is a marathon, not a sprint. One led and sustained by grace.
Three Things I’ve Learned as a Sunday School Teacher
1. You don’t need to have it all together to start. I used to think I had to be fully prepared, spiritually mature, and skilled before I could serve. But the truth is, the learning happens along the way. God teaches me even as I teach the children. He equips those He calls and He grows us through the process.
2. Your heart matters more than your teaching skills. The kids may not remember every craft, every song, or every Bible story detail but they will remember how you made them feel.
Your love, patience, and care reflect the heart of Christ. It’s not just about the lesson you teach, but the way you live it out through your listening ear, your warm smile, your gentle correction, and your kindness in the chaos.
It’s not always easy especially when the children misbehave or things feel out of control. And to be honest, I’m still learning to speak with love in those moments.
Patience doesn’t always come naturally, but I’m learning to lean on God’s grace more and more. And I trust that as He shapes me, He’s also working in the hearts of the little ones I’m called to serve.
For some children, especially those who come from non-Christian homes or were brought by a friend or relative, you may be the closest representation of Jesus they’ve ever known. You may be the first glimpse of Jesus they ever see and that impression can shape their understanding of Him for life.
3. Flexibility is part of faithfulness. Not every Sunday school class will go as planned and that’s okay. Sometimes we’ll spend more time calming a noisy room, comforting a tearful child, or simply following the Spirit’s unexpected lead.
It may feel like a detour, but it’s just one class out of many and it might be the one they remember most.
Little eyes and ears are always watching not just what we teach, but how we respond. How we handle disruptions, how we correct with grace, how we stay patient. Those are the lessons that often speak the loudest.
Being a Sunday school teacher is both a weighty responsibility and a beautiful privilege. It’s weighty, because souls are being shaped. It’s holy, because we’re planting seeds that grow into lifelong faith.
But we are not alone in this. We serve with the One we are serving for. He sees. He strengthens. He goes before us into every lesson, every heart, every moment.
Here are 3 key characteristics of God to encourage and uplift Sunday School teachers in their ministry.
1. God is Faithful
“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; His mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.”
Lamentations 3:22–23
Even when things feel repetitive or when progress seems slow, God is always working behind the scenes.
He never forgets your labor of love. Your consistent investment in young lives is not in vain.
2. God is Patient
“The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love.”
Psalm 103:8
God’s patience is a model for teaching. Kids may struggle to listen, understand, or behave but God reminds us to extend the same grace He gives us every day.
We don’t have to be perfect; God equips us to reflect His love and patience, moment by moment.
3. God is Our Helper
“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.”
Psalm 46:1
Whether we’re preparing lessons, dealing with rowdy children, or feeling spiritually dry, God is our ever-present helper.
He doesn’t just call us, He equips us.
When you feel overwhelmed, ask for help. He delights in strengthening you.
Sometimes, as Sunday School teachers, we feel like we’re not making a huge difference. We wonder if we’re doing enough, or if we’re really reaching the children. But take heart, what little we offer to God, He multiplies.
Just like the boy with five loaves and two fish, our simple efforts, when surrendered to God, can become something far greater than we imagine.
“So is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it.”
Isaiah 55:11
Even when it feels small, your time, your prayers, your love, it’s never wasted in God’s hands.
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