Cypress And Myrtle

Tag: faith

  • To the Introverted Woman Walking with God

    If you’re an introvert like me, I want to encourage you today in your walk with God.

    Social gatherings whether at church, school, or work can leave us feeling drained. We come home with our social batteries low, longing for some alone time to recharge. But if you’re a mom with young children, finding that quiet space can feel nearly impossible.

    Let me remind you that you are fearfully and wonderfully made.


    Psalm 139:14 (NIV)

    “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”

    There is nothing wrong with you. You are not “too quiet,” “too reserved,” or “too sensitive.” We are simply made differently.

    Unlike our extroverted friends who thrive in busy circles and constant interaction, we often need time to be still, to reflect, to breathe, to be alone with our thoughts and with God. That space isn’t a luxury for us, it’s a necessity. It’s where we reset, so we can pour ourselves out again with intention and grace.

    And we’re in good company.

    Many of God’s chosen servants were introverts; Moses, Jeremiah, Elijah even Jesus often withdrew to be alone to pray.

    Mark 1:35

    Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.

    Quietness doesn’t mean a lack of purpose or power.

    So if you find yourself needing a moment away, don’t feel guilty. Take your moment. Guard your quiet time with the Lord. Let it strengthen you. And remember, your introspective spirit is a gift to your family, your church, and the world.

    I also want to share 4 things that have helped me as an introverted woman walking with God.

    Maybe they’ll encourage you too:

    1. Create a Mini Quiet Time Ritual

    Spending just 5–10 minutes with God can make a huge difference especially on busy days. Wake up a little earlier, take a break during the day, or step outside for some quiet. Read one Psalm, pray briefly, or sit in silence. Keep it simple and consistent.

    2. Journal Your Prayers and Thoughts

    As introverts, we often process life through reflection. Journaling my fears, hopes, struggles, and prayers help me bring everything before God clearly. It clears my mind, helps me stay grounded, and gives me a better perspective of things.

    3. Honor Your Limits, But Don’t Stay Hidden

    It’s okay to say “no” when you’re overstretched but don’t let comfort become complacency. God calls us to love, serve, and reach out, even when it feels awkward. Look for small ways to step out: send a message, attend that small group, pray with someone quietly.

    4. Pursue Deep, One-on-One Connections

    Crowds wear me out, but soul-filling relationships happen in small settings. A walk with a friend. A meaningful chat over coffee. Ask deep questions. Listen well. These quiet connections can be some of the most powerful ways God works through you.

    You don’t have to be everywhere to be used by God. Even in your quiet moments, even when you feel stretched and unseen, God sees you. He knows your heart, your limits, and your desire to walk closely with Him.

    So take that small step. Make space for Him. For you are fearfully and wonderfully made.

  • An Open Letter: What Is It Like To Die?

    To My Eldest Daughter,

    You were seven when you asked me, “Mummy, what is it like to die?”

    I paused. Searching for words your young heart could understand.
    Then I said, “It’s like walking across a bridge into the arms of Jesus. The moment you hear His voice, you’ll realize He’s been with you your whole life. Like an old friend, familiar, warm, and close to your heart.”

    You thought for a moment, then quietly nodded. Accepting the answer with a child’s calm trust.

    As you grow, and your faith deepens, it is my deepest desire and constant prayer that you will come to know Him not only as an old friend but as your Lord and Savior.

    Jesus is not only gentle and kind. He is God in the flesh.
    He is the Word who was with God in the beginning. And He is God (John 1:1). Through Him, all things were made (John 1:3).

    He is Immanuel—God with us (Matthew 1:23).

    He walked among us, full of grace and truth. And though He had every right to remain in heaven, He humbled Himself to become like us, so He could save us (Philippians 2:6–8).

    He healed the sick, calmed storms with a word and raised the dead.

    And then He chose the cross. Not because He was weak but because He is love.

    No one took His life from Him. He laid it down willingly. (John 10:18)
    And on the third day, He rose again, declaring forever that death does not win.

    This is the Jesus I want you to know.

    He is the Christ, the Son of the Living God. (Matthew 16:16)
    He is the Lamb who takes away the sin of the world. (John 1:29)

    He is the Alpha and the Omega (Revelation 22:13). The Beginning and the End. And He is coming again.

    In Him is life, And that life is the light of all mankind (John 1:4).

    So, dearest daughter, choose Life. Remain in Him always.

    With all my love,
    Mummy

  • Cypress and Myrtle: A Promise For Every Season

    Some of you may be wondering why I chose to name this blog Cypress and Myrtle. A quick search in the Bible leads to Isaiah 55:12–13:

    “You will go out in joy
    and be led forth in peace;
    the mountains and hills
    will burst into song before you,
    and all the trees of the field
    will clap their hands.
    Instead of the thornbush will grow the juniper,
    and instead of briers the myrtle will grow.
    This will be for the Lord’s renown,
    for an everlasting sign,
    that will endure forever.”

    These verses were shared with me at my baptism, and they’ve been etched in my heart ever since. They’ve whispered hope during dark seasons and magnified joy in times of celebration.

    From Exile to Hope

    Isaiah 55 was written during a painful time in Israel’s history – their exile in Babylon. They were a displaced people, longing for freedom, identity, and peace. It was in this context that God spoke through the prophet Isaiah, painting a vision of restoration; hope for a future filled with renewal and joy.

    Why Cypress and Myrtle?

    In verse 13, the thornbush is replaced by the cypress (sometimes translated juniper), and the brier by the myrtle. These are deeply symbolic plants.

    The cypress is tall, evergreen, and strong—often associated with life, endurance, and eternal hope.

    The myrtle, with its fragrant leaves and white blossoms, is a symbol of peace, joy, and divine blessing in Jewish tradition.

    Together, they represent a transformation from pain to beauty, from despair to delight, from exile to restoration.

    This speaks to the very heart of God’s nature. He doesn’t just remove the thorns in our lives. He replaces them with something better. Something beautiful. Something enduring.

    A Name and a Reminder

    I named this blog Cypress and Myrtle to remind myself and hopefully others, that we are never stuck in the wilderness forever. Whether we’re walking through sorrow or standing on a mountaintop, God’s promises still hold. He is always working to bring about renewal and restoration.

    This space is where I hope to share stories, reflections, and everyday moments where I see God’s hand turning thorn bushes into cypress trees, and briers into blossoming myrtle.

    No matter where you are in your journey, may these verses remind you: there is purpose in the waiting, hope in the silence, and beauty still to come.

  • He Speaks

    In my life, I’ve heard God roar and I’ve heard Him whisper. Two very different moments. Two very different needs. Yet both, unmistakably Him.

    As a child, He spoke in ways I could understand through graffiti on a wall, chapel songs, and Sunday School stories.
    As I grew older, He spoke through Scripture, alive and powerful.

    The God we serve is not silent. He never has been. It’s His nature to speak and He’s been speaking since the beginning.

    In Genesis 1:3, “And God said, ‘Let there be light,’ and there was light.”
    From the very first moment of creation, His voice brought life.

    Then, in John 1:1, we read, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”
    Jesus wasn’t just a messenger. He is the message. Every word He spoke revealed the heart of God.

    His voice didn’t go silent after the resurrection. He still speaks through Scripture, through the Holy Spirit, through moments quiet and loud.
    His words bring life, clarity and peace.

    A.W. Tozer wrote, “The second person of the Holy Trinity is called the Word. The Bible is the inevitable outcome of God’s continuous speech. It is the infallible declaration of His mind for us, put into familiar human words.”

    God has always spoken and He still does.
    From creation to this very moment, His voice calls out with power and love.
    Jesus, the Living Word, continues to speak light into our darkness.
    May we listen with hearts ready to hear.